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When a family member or friend passes away, it can be overwhelming and confusing - there are countless things to be done and tough decisions to make - we can help you at this difficult time.
We can help you with understanding what's required for banking arrangements - from stopping account activity, to handling the release of money from the estate and supporting you every step of the way.
Each situation may be different, and we will tailor our support to your individual needs. Depending on what documents you already have, it may take anywhere from a couple of weeks to several months to finalise the estate. We may also need information and instructions from other parties.
Here's what you need to do to finalise your loved one's estate, explained in more detail below:
Contact us as soon as you can. Either by:
Notify the Government of the passing of your loved one and a Death certificate will be issued. Provide us with a copy of this.
Choose whichever way you're most comfortable with. Rest assured we'll handle your situation with care and sensitivity, whether in person or over the phone.
After notifying us, you'll receive a confirmation email within two business days.
When you tell us about someone passing away, we need a few details.
Don't worry if you don't know everything on this list. We can work with you to obtain the information.
We'll also need to record your details and your relationship to the deceased. We may need proof of identity such as a passport or driver's licence.
While we don't need the Death Certificate immediately, please provide it to us as soon as you can. Either show us the original or provide us a certified copy. Certification can be completed by your local Justice of the Peace (JP) or solicitor.
We'll act to keep your loved one's accounts safe and prevent unauthorised access. It's also important to consider any financial or other impacts this may cause you or others. We can help you identify and support you to manage these impacts.
For example:
Bank accounts
Joint accounts
Credit cards
Home and personal loans
Term deposits
Business accounts
Online access
We can release funds to pay or reimburse immediate funeral expenses when a request is received from the person who paid for the funeral or to whom the invoice is addressed. The person requesting must be identified, and provide either:
Payment or reimbursement requests should be sent to ASBEstates@asb.co.nz.
Alternatively, the Authorised Estate Representative(s) can request payment or reimbursement of funeral expenses relating to the Estate.
Account information can only be shared with an Authorised Estate Representative who has met our Identification Requirements.
Our Support Guide provides the lists of documents required to confirm that you and /or others are the Authorised Estate Representative(s).
Alternatively, we can provide account information to a solicitor if they provide a letter of representation confirming that they act for the estate.
Power of Attorney
The Power of Attorney gives a trusted person the right to operate someone's accounts on their behalf should they be unable to make decisions for themselves. This only applies while the person is alive. Once they pass away, the Power of Attorney no longer applies.
Life & Health Insurance
If your loved one has life insurance, you can contact the provider to make a claim or close the policies:
AIA 0800 500 108
For all other policies contact ASB Insurance Services on 0800 501 223 or email insurance.services@asb.co.nz
General Insurance
If your loved one had General Insurance policies such as home or car insurance, cover under general insurance will continue as normal.
Premiums if paid out of the Deceased's account will be stopped, you may need to change and update your payment details to ensure premiums stay up to date.
To cancel general house, home, contents and car insurance or change the policy owner details, please call our insurance partner:
IAG 0800 200 252
If the estate is over $15,000, we can't release any funds until the High Court grants probate over the Will. Probate involves registering the deceased's Will with the High Court, so they can confirm that it's valid. When this happens, the executor of the Will is legally empowered to execute the wishes of the deceased. That includes distributing funds and other assets. If there is no Will, the courts will appoint an administrator to determine the fair distribution of assets.
If the estate is under $15,000, we require a Deceased Estates Claim and Closure form to be completed. Your local branch can help you through this.
When closing the estate, we're required under the Anti-Money Laundering (AML) and Countering Financing of Terrorism Act 2009 to verify your identity or the identity of the people administering the estate. We'll help you work through this process.
We can often release funds from the deceased's accounts to help pay for funeral costs. It can be a lot of help at an already stressful time. Please talk to us about this option so we can guide you through what's required.
Our Support Guide provides further information on who can request payment of funeral expenses and what documents are required.
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If you’re an executor of an estate, you may need to lodge a final tax return on behalf of the deceased person. MyTrove – a central place to notify key utility organisations.
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Depending on your circumstances, we may ask you to complete the below forms. We'll let you know which forms you need to complete.
The information and tools suggested are intended to provide general information only. It is not financial advice and does not take into consideration your personal needs and financial circumstances. You should consider seeking financial advice before making any decision based on this information.